Dangerous Romances

Choose growth or regret

It's impossible not to have thoughts about the past.

And unfortunately, the bad ones seem to recur more often than the good ones.

It's ok to have quick memories, but it is not ok to make up fiction in your mind about "what could have been."

This is self-destructive behavior.

Memories happen in a vacuum. Life does not.

Don't romanticize the past like you had some inhuman control over what could have happened.

When you do have a memory (good or bad), keep it short.

Either dispose of it for the time being or remind yourself of how you grew from it.

Do not romanticize the past.

Focus on your adaption.